Leading Edge – Volume 77 – CEO Mindset: Critical Eye

Leading Edge – Volume 76 – CEO Mindset: Creating Balance

Recommended Reading-The 5 Dysfunctions of a Team

Kelley Reynolds from Aegis Learning

“The single most untapped competitive advantages is teamwork.”

Patrick Lencioni

Leading Edge from Aegis Learning

By Kelley Reynolds

Patrick Lencioni has written a leadership fable about fictional Kathryn Petersen, the new CEO of DecisionTech. He has identified five dysfunctions that cause problems within organizations. Within each section, Petersen instructs her team through a series of exercise. The appendix offers additional specific exercises to overcome each of the dysfunctions.

Reading about the dysfunctions of team and thinking of the converse, high performing teams, one thought jumps into my brain: SWAT teams. These are the law enforcement special weapons and tactic teams. There are probably military teams who operate under the same philosophies, but my familiarity is limited to law enforcement. SWAT teams are highly specialized, highly trained cohesive teams. They HAVE to function. The consequences of dysfunction within one of their teams is not merely a slow quarter nor is not a lost sale. Dysfunction within a SWAT team could result in lost lives, civilian and law enforcement.

1. Absence of trust
Lack or loss of trust is at the core of any type of broken relationship; whether we call the relationship marriage, friendship or colleague. Without trust in place, there is no level of emotional intimacy. At best the interactions are cordial, the other end of the spectrum could include open hostility or worse. To have a cohesive team, you have to be able to be honest with each other. As well, there needs to be trust within the team for one to be honest about oneself while communication with the other team members.

You might be thinking, “Wait a minute. You mentioned a SWAT team. Where do emotions and intimacy come into play?” Oh, tough SWAT officers have emotions. Have you ever seen the tears well up in their eyes when their brand new armored SWAT vehicle is delivered from the showroom?

There are such rigorous standards to qualify for the team, from the beginning, the members know the new member is of high caliber. They train together. Hard, dirty, sweaty training. They build camaraderie through shared experiences.

2. Fear of Conflict
Without trust, team members will not have open discussion of ideas. What options are there for the team, if new ideas aren’t shared? If trust was lost, how can it be rebuilt until the issue is addressed. Addressing the issue is oftentimes going to involve conflict.

Okay, do you think SWAT team members have a fear of conflict? Yeah, me neither. Do they have conflicts on the team? You bet! However, they know what is at stake if they allow the conflict to fester and that is simply not an option. They address issues. Conflicts within the team get resolved.

3. Lack of Commitment
It is much easier to gain buy-in if everyone has an opportunity speak and is willing to share their ideas. Then, the team needs to engage in healthy debate surrounding the ideas. If the members aren’t involved in healthy conflict, it may impact their commitment to the plan.
So, SWAT members engage in discussion about executing search warrants. They weigh the pros and cons of using a flash-bang or other devices. Once the plan is made, all of them understand the plan and are committed to it.

4. Avoidance of Accountability
Without commitment and little to no trust, the fourth dysfunction occurs, and it is two-fold. If someone did not buy into the plan, how much responsibility will they take for their behaviors? “It wasn’t my idea. I knew it wasn’t going to work.” You can hear them say it. If there is little trust among peers, who among the team will hold them accountable?

This is where SWAT teams excel. There is no avoiding accountability. After every event, the SWAT team debriefs. Everyone in the room is given an opportunity to speak, twice. The first time around, the team member is expected to acknowledge any action they took or failed to take. If, during the first time around, someone failed to take responsibility for their own actions, on the second go-round, it is the other team members responsibility to point out the unacknowledged errors.

5. Inattention to Results
When members of the team fail to hold each other accountable, the team loses focus of the big picture. At this point, individual members may put their needs above the team or the team may look no further than itself without consideration to the organization’s needs.
The results of the SWAT team’s work is usually on the nightly news. Criminals may be arrested. There may be law suits filed. It is virtually impossible to ignore the results of a SWAT team’s work. Furthermore, the lessons learned from the debrief are incorporated into their training. They may become policy and best practice.

Learning from their experiences and modifying their tactics to keep citizens and officers safe is the mission of the police department. Teams working toward the mission of the organization is the goal that Lencioni’s book attempts to achieve.

Kelley Reynolds

Kelley’s optimistic outlook on life guides her belief that change is possible!

Her easy going instruction style mixed with a dry wit make her an entertaining educator. She has instructed professionals throughout the nation as well as internationally. Kelley has earned a Master of Business Administration and possesses a bachelor’s degree in Criminal Justice, both from University of Nevada, Las Vegas.

Curiosity Elevates the Cat

“Curiosity is the most powerful thing you own.”

― James Francis Cameron

By Polly Walker

What is one of the most powerful things you can do to be BETTER? The secret to your success lies in cultivating curiosity. Curiosity can give you a profound advantage both in business and in life.

Curiosity is something we feel when we are struck by a strange or unusual object or fact, which then results in a strong desire to know or learn something. Many people believe that curiosity is a trait (i.e. it can’t be taught, it is a natural tendency), but that is not the case. Curiosity is a behavior, which is fantastic because this means you can LEARN how to do it.

Why be curious? There are many, many positive outcomes from being curious, but I have chosen just to highlight my “big three” here:

• Strengthen Relationships – Curious people are genuinely interested in others, and asking questions builds connection.
• Increase Competence: Gathering knowledge and sharing information sparks the ability to innovate, enhances credibility, and supports the achievement of outcomes.
• Fuel Positive Mindset: Growth-minded people ask questions and believe that there is always an answer to any problem or situation.

The September, 2006, Edition of Psychology Today outlined some easy ways that you can “train” yourself to be more curious.

• Reframe “boring” situations.
If you’ve got an inquiring mind, it’s possible to turn even mundane events, like waiting in line at the DMV, into something meaningful. Look for details others might miss, and seek to learn more about them. For instance, try turning to another customer in line and saying, “I noticed the Purple Heart pinned to your jacket. What war did you serve in?”

• Don’t let fear stop you from trying something new.
“If you’re curious about something, it acts as a positive counterweight to anxiety and fear,” Silvia says. Exercising your curiosity won’t wipe out doubt, but it may help you focus on the likely positive consequences of a new venture (learning to execute a perfect swan dive) rather than the negative ones (doing a belly flop and surfacing to the sound of laughter).

• Let your true passions shine.
A key component of curiosity is what Boston College psychologist Ellen Winner calls a “rage to master”—whether that involves accumulating rejection slips from The New Yorker or spending hours in the basement learning banjo fingerings. An intense focus on specific interests or goals invites the state of mental immersion called “flow,” which in turn elicits feelings of accomplishment and well-being.

James Cameron (the Director of Titanic, Terminator, Aliens, Avatar and several other movies) says “Curiosity is the most powerful thing you can own”. His curiosity as a child about exploring the world around him spurred numerous dives to the bottom of the ocean (including a dive of 45,756 feet to the bottom of the ocean to film Titanic), the creation of several undersea documentaries, the invention of several underwater apparatus, and the creation of several of biggest blockbuster movies ever. The secret to your success lies in cultivating curiosity.

Polly Walker’s areas of focus include leadership development, quality management, customer service, team member engagement and process improvement. She is an engaging and experienced facilitator, team builder, trainer, and change manager. 

Leading Edge – Volume 75 – CEO Mindset: Continuous Learning

Take Your Leadership on Vacation

By Kelley Reynolds

The impetus for this article was having recently returned home from an extended family vacation in Europe (yes, extended described both the family and the vacation).

While on the plane home, I reflected on the trip, experiences and adventures. We had some wonderful adventures exploring Spain and France. Tasting tapas; climbing castles; chewing croissants; boarding bullet trains (I couldn’t think of any appropriate ‘w’ verb to describe wine activity, probably just as well).

Looks fantastic, doesn’t it? Lest, you think my family is comprised of the characters from the Stepford Wives, where we all sit under rainbows and hug, we experienced some, um, unpleasant adventures, too.

In an effort to identify opportunities to improve future vacations, I reflected on some of the challenges we faced. After some thought, there was a consistent issue: communication. Sure, there are those communication challenges that will naturally occur with jet lag and a nine-hour time difference; not to mention the two different languages none of us spoke. Language was really an issue when we had to learn how to say: “Endodontist, I need an emergency root canal” in Spanish. However, we also experienced other communication challenges as described in Tim Schneider’s book, Lead Well: The 10 Competencies of Outstanding Leadership.

I can share with you the importance of good communication (or would have been).

Richness of communication can be described degree of emotional connectivity to the message. The greatest richness is achieved by in-person communication, followed by telephone, written and finally text. Oh, Richness, how I missed you. Lobert (the names have been changed to protect the innocent, and mostly because I have to see them during the holidays) did not coordinate when he booked his family’s accommodations. Lobert and his family ended up staying in another village, 30 minutes away from the rest of us! This impacted our ability to communicate face to face.

Prior to leaving the states, Lobert decided he did not want to pay extra to use his cellphone while in Europe. His plan was to communicate with us via the internet utilizing a messaging app. Unfortunately, in order to do this, the app required access to the internet which was not always available to Lobert. His plan was to locate cafes and bistros that offered free WiFi. This may have worked had Lobert remembered to bring his cellphone when he left his hotel. Maybe he was relying on his telepathic abilities? Hopefully, Lobert was not able to read the minds of the rest of the family who waited and searched for him.

To recap, we lost richness without in-person communication. Richness eroded further when we were unable to call each other. Written word was dependent upon the elusive free WiFi.

Clarity of communication is another challenge. ‘Too many words’ creates not enough understanding. Active Listening can go hand in hand with clarity. If someone is using a lot of words, we tend to stop listening and jump to what we think they are saying. So, we finally meet up with Lobert at one of the amazing 14th century castles/obvious landmarks of this particular city. Lobert begins to chat about the castle.

And talks and talks and talks. We nod and say “Uh huh”. Naturally, now the group of 15 of us are in line, with Euros in hand, to purchase the castle tour and audio guides. About 3/4ths the way through this castle, the 7th castle we visited on our extended vacation, a member of the family, who has honed her leadership skills, to quite possibly the Greatest Of All Time, who we will refer to as GOAT for short, finally asked a few of the other family members if they had wanted to tour the castle. None of them had been even the slightest bit interested. Not even Lobert, whom we had assumed wanted to explore the castle, had any interest in touring the castle. Ugh.

If we had clarity, the message might not have gotten lost in the words. Or, if we had practiced active listening skills instead of “Uh huh” we might have gone canoeing instead of wandering around another dank old castle.

After leaving the castle, GOAT noticed everyone was a little cranky and irritable. Well, they were all annoying her, so they must have been cranky. In a master stroke of leadership, she gathered everyone in a circle and made the suggestion to find a place to eat. To gain buy-in, everyone was given an opportunity to say where they wanted to eat. She used her active listening skills, asked appropriate questions and paid attention.

Dinner was a delicious triple scoop cone of pistachio gelato!

Oh, and the emergency root canal. You guessed it. Lobert’s!

Kelley Reynolds

Kelley’s optimistic outlook on life guides her belief that change is possible!

Her easy going instruction style mixed with a dry wit make her an entertaining educator. She has instructed professionals throughout the nation as well as internationally. Kelley has earned a Master of Business Administration and possesses a bachelor’s degree in Criminal Justice, both from University of Nevada, Las Vegas.

Leading Edge – Volume 74 – CEO Mindset: Ego on a Dial

Great Leaders are Good Storytellers

By Polly Walker

Storytelling is one of the most powerful ways that we can connect with another person. When done effectively it can evoke positive memories in the listener, and well as endearing the storyteller to the listener by revealing strengths and vulnerabilities. Most people are comfortable at telling stories in a personal setting, but don’t understand how to deploy this technique in a professional setting. This article is designed to enhance your leadership effectiveness by providing three great ways to utilize storytelling in the workplace.

Mentoring

Leaders often serve as mentors, advising someone in developing specific skills and knowledge that will support the person’s career growth. By sharing stories about the mentor’s experience and career, the leader/mentor will be more effectively able to impact the mentee by relating actual experiences and outcomes.

Public Speaking

A good story instantly evokes the emotions of the listener. In public speaking, one of the best ways to get your point across and get the attention of the listener is to illustrate how the topic matters to you by weaving in a personal story. Share your vulnerabilities and utilize humor to make your story memorable. A powerful, personal story that is important to you and related to the topic at hand is key to every great presentation.

Relationship Building

To your team members, you are the face of your company. If you want to build an engaged workplace, it is your role as a leader to build relationships. Sharing stories is a very powerful way to do this. Families, hobbies and pets are great topics for your storytelling, with the objective of building commonality and trust. Keep it light and not too personal… and don’t forget to solicit that same information back from your team members.

Want to be a better, more effective leader? Storytelling will help you connect on a new and very powerful level with your team members.

Polly Walker’s areas of focus include leadership development, quality management, customer service, team member engagement and process improvement. She is an engaging and experienced facilitator, team builder, trainer, and change manager. 

Leading Edge – Volume 73 – CEO Mindset: Being Strategic

Impossible to Possible

"Nuts!"

Tim Schneider, Coach, Speaker, Author and Trainer from Aegis Learning

By Tim Schneider

Admittedly, I struggle with anyone pronouncing impossibility. Sticks in my craw and creates an internal bristle. Okay, maybe more than a bristle.

Impossibility is declared most commonly in “I can’t” type of statements. To wit: “I can’t survive on my own”, “I can’t learn that technical stuff”, “I don’t have enough time or resources”, “My situation won’t allow that”, “I don’t do sales”, “We can’t compete against that”.

Seems the declaration of impossibility is very easy to speak and painfully effective in providing cover for comfort, complacency and failure to challenge oneself.

For the effective leader, and the high-performing team/organization, challenging impossibility must occur daily. Nothing is impossible when both attitude and effort are aligned.

December, 1944 offers some great historical lessons on the impossible becoming highly successful.

The Impossible Situation

Outnumbered five-to-one, low on supplies and painfully short on cold weather gear, the 101st Airborne Division was surrounded in the town of Bastogne. The German advance, later to be named The Battle of the Bulge, was spearheaded by multiple Panzer divisions, Wehrmacht German infantry and the feared Waffen SS.

General Heinrich Von Luttwitz sent a demand to surrender to all American forces under siege in Bastogne.

The December 22, 1944 reply from Brigadier General Anthony McAuliffe: “Nuts!”.

McAuliffe openly defied the logic of impossible and chose to reposition his attitude to one of defiance and resolve. Understanding the risks and consequences, he chose to move forward against impossible odds and even the advice of subordinate commanders.

The Impossible Solution

On December 19, 1944, Supreme Allied Commander, Dwight Eisenhower, called a meeting of all senior theater commanders. Searching for a solution, he asked General George Patton about the amount of time needed to disengage his troops from the heavy fighting in the south of Germany and relieve the 101st Airborne Division.

“48 hours” General Patton replied.

Eisenhower challenged Patton and suggested this approach was impossible. He even inferred General Patton was a bit crazy for this outlandish solution.

By December 21, 133,000 vehicles and six full divisions of Patton’s 3rd Army were on the move north. Elements of the 4th Armored Division entered Bastogne on December 26.

The impossible solution was achieved.

Patton’s choice was daring and defied the expert’s conclusions that it could not be done. His solution also flew in the face of all historical references of past performance. The general had a little trick though. He anticipated the need and pre-planned three strategies for disengaging from his current position and moving north prior to being asked.

Impossible to Possible

As with great historical battles and struggles, we too, are faced with the seemingly impossible. Here are some strategies to convert impossible to possible:

1. Stop listening to anyone that declares a situation impossible. Shun them. Run from them.

2. Create an incremental plan, with measurable milestones, of how to conquer the challenge. Breaking impossible into small parts makes something look much more possible. You don’t have to learn everything about technology in one day. You can start with a single application or even how the hardware works.

3. Remove the demons from your attitude by stop echoing and providing the self-talk of can’t or difficult.

4. Use a pause when negative and self-defeating language is about to come out of your mouth or flow through your fingers. Is it really “can’t”?

5. Challenge your own personal comfort, convenience and complacency. Growth and moving out of your current spot is hard. But it’s a lot easier than roasting in the misery of sameness.

6. Use history for the lessons of possible and not the failures of prior ventures. Yes, someone else tried it and it was an epic failure, but that was someone else. Not you.

7. Dream big and reconcile to reality. Shoot for big outcomes and targets. You can always reel those back to certain reality points but start with something that truly appears impossible.

Tim Schneider

Tim Schneider is the founder, CEO and lead facilitator for Aegis Learning.